Achebe Portrays Okonkwo As Having a Non-representative Faulty View of Family Relationships
The tribal Igbo community of Okonkwo has its mores that every child learns as it grows up. A man is the head of his family meaning that he is the primary provider. The peopleâs staple food is yam, and âYam, the king of crops, was a manâs cropâ (16) because it requires a lot of muscular work over a relatively long period to grow it. When the harvest comes, the man feeds his family primarily from the produce; it was a subsistent kind of farming. As Achebe emphatically reiterates, âYam stood for manliness, and he who could feed his family on yams from one harvest to another was a very great man indeedâ (24). Often the woman helps the man by growing âwomenâs crops, like coco-yams, beans and cassavaâ (16) alongside with him. It is, however, the woman who typically runs the house since the man often spends most of the hours on the farm. Achebe writes, for instance, about Okonkwo that âDuring the planting season Okonkwo worked daily on his farms from cock-crow until the chickens went to roostâ (10). She ensures that the family meals are prepared in time, teaches the kids family values, make sure the house constantly have enough water to run on, and represents the man in absentia. Above all, the woman respectfully and lovingly submits to the man as the head of the house.
Having a distorted view of what it means to be a man and father, and this being engendered by his childhood experience, âOkonkwo [rules] his household with a heavy handâ (09). His father, Unoka, becomes a pariah towards the end of his life partly because he is struck by a disease but also because he was an agbala. All these happenings make the puerile mind of Okonkwo wrongly associate his fatherâs shortcomings with that of fatherhood. Unoka becomes the exact antithesis of Okonkwoâs life â[and] so Okonkwo was ruled by one passionâto hate everything that his father Unoka had lovedâ (10). Thus, whereas Unoka is a gentle, cheerful being who loves his people and family, Okonkwo beats his own family and would not vacillate to âpounce on peopleâ (03) when the opportunity presents itself. So deep in his mind is this misconception that Okonkwo would not âstop beating somebody half-way through, not even for fear of a goddessâ (21). Such is the act that makes him break the sanctity of the Week of Peace when he pounces on his wife for not cooking his food in timeâan act for which he duly pays. It is worth noting that Okonkwo, who apparently lacks self-control, could have cut short his life by this sacrilegious act because, as Ogbuefi Ezeudu points out, the penalty for such a thing used to be fatal: âMy father told me that he had been told that in the past a man who broke the peace was dragged on the ground through the village until he diedâ (23). Nwoye is the other unfortunate recipient of Okonkwoâs raw fury. At the sight of what he sees to be âincipient lazinessâ (10) and â[too] much of his grandfatherâ (46), Okonkwo tries to nurture Nwoye into a man of his own imageâthrough incessant nagging and beating. Indeed, it seems like he is going to achieve that goal until he takes away Nwoyeâs adopted brother. The last straw that breaks the camelâs back is the event that takes place after Nwoyeâs affiliation with the Christians is discovered:
Nwoye turned round to walk into the inner compound when his father, suddenly overcome with fury, sprang to his feet and gripped him by the neck.
âWhere have you been?â he stammered.
Nwoye struggled to free himself from the choking grip.
âAnswer me,â roared Okonkwo, âbefore I kill you!â
He seized a heavy stick that lay on the dwarf wall and hit two or three savage blows. (107)
Had Okonkwo not kill Ikemefuna, he ostensibly would not have had to lose his firstborn child because â[Ikemefuna] was like an elder brother to Nwoye, and from the very first [encounter] seemed to have kindled a new life in the younger boy.â Nwoye is developing into the very chap that his father has always wanted him to become. The boy was letting go of some of his âgrandfatherâ that was in him. He âno longer spent the evenings in [his] motherâs hut while she cooked, but now sat with Okonkwo in his obi, or watched him as he tapped his palm tree for the evening wineâ (37). When Okonkwo kills Ikemefuna, however, he unknowingly gives Nwoye another reason to become a dissidentâfirst, at heart. It is, thus, Okonkwoâs distorted view of how a family should be run that ruined him first; his views run counter to those of the majority of his constituent.
It is unbecoming enough that Okonkwo does not have a popular understanding of how to be the head of a family; it is worse that, though he is âone of the greatest men of his time,â he also does not have a good grasp of what leadershipâas understood by his societyâis all about. It is true that among his people, âachievement [is] revered,â (06) but there is another side to the coin of leadership as conceived of by tribal Igbo community; a leader is rational and analytical. Obierika is perhaps the best character that illustrates this leadership quality. After Okonkwo had killed Ikemefuna, he goes to visit Obierika wondering why his friend did not come along to do the bidding of the Oracle:
âI cannot understand why you refused to come along with us to kill that boy,â he asked Obierika.
âBecause I did not want to,â Obierika replied sharply. âI had something better to do.â
It is worth noting that whereas Okonkwoâs understanding of leadership is one necessarily subservient to the gods, Obierikaâs is one where he retains his will and reasoning regardless of what the gods say. Obierika even dares to say that he âhad something better to doâ than doing the will of a god. Okonkwo then momentarily forgets that the man he is talking to is an achiever like himself which was why they became friends in the first placeâsince Okonkwo â[has] no patience with unsuccessful menâ(03)âand wrongly concludes that Obierika is a coward:
âBut someone had to do it. If we were all afraid of blood, it would not be done. And what do you think the Oracle would do then?â
Obierika has to remind him: âYou know very well, Okonkwo, that I am not afraid of blood; and if anyone tells you that I am, he is telling a lieâ (46).
Apparently, these two leaders do not have the same understanding. Obierika is more analytical and sound in his judgment. As he pointedly argues, âif the Oracle said that my son should be killed I would neither dispute it nor be the one to do itâ (47).
Work Cited
Achebe, Chinua. Things Fall Apart. Exp. ed. with notes. Oxford: Heinemann, 1996. Print. African Writers Series. Classics in Context.